January 2, 2011 Leave a comment
[This post was written while on board a plane from St. Louis to Denver]
I am sitting on a plane again. This time for domestic travel. I’m on the way back to Denver from St. Louis for the beginning of Winter Quarter. I’m also heading back to Denver at the end of my last winter break – and I have to say, I’m not a big fan of that one. I cannot believe that winter break is over. Simultaneously, I feel like winter break just began and has been going on for quite some time. Of course, winter break has been about six weeks long and I have been to the other side of the world and back again – literally.
I have no regrets about this winter break. While I would have liked to have had more time in St. Louis to spend with people, I had some amazing experiences that I would not have wanted to pass up. In my time at home, I spent a lot of time with family – something I am very happy about. As well, I got to catch up with friends all over St. Louis. I traveled to Israel where I saw new and old sights, reconnected with old friends and made some new ones, and attended an amazing wedding. I traveled to England where I traveled the country with a friend and saw some of the most amazing (and old) places I have ever been to. I was able to experience England and what it has to offer. I spent time looking for and Interviewing for jobs (hopefully with some results soon). I did a bit of reading and time to reflect and prepare for the new quarter.
The past few weeks have taught my several things. I can rely on my instincts. I know more that I realize sometimes. It can be okay to go with the flow. While planning is necessary, some adjustments may be necessary. Change is okay and can be a good thing. Relationships may change and morph. We have to be okay with this. Friends and family are important. Treat them as such.
I graduate from the University of Denver with a BA and a MBA at the beginning of June. This June. With two degrees. Wow! I cannot believe that 2011 is here; 2010 just flew by! The first half of this year will be filled with what promise to be the most difficult classes I have taken in college. This new challenge should prove to be of benefit to me and I plan to rise to the challenge and exceed all goals and expectations.
This year will also contain a major decision that will likely affect the rest of my life (the next few years, at a minimum): what job to take and what city to live in – the two are linked. Everything I have done these past 23 years was effectively preparing me for this moment. This year I will need to make a decision based on my past education and work experiences that will set me up for my future – work, friends, family, etc. I do not take this situation lightly and I hope to make the right/best decision possible. I pray that will indeed be the case.
Other than what I have written here, I do not really have any new resolutions for 2011. I generally have the same goals for each year that will hopefully lead me to being a better person:
- Try my best to understand people – i.e. increase my empathy and open-mindedness
- Rely on my values
- Do my best
- Talk less about people behind their backs
- Do what I can to make the world a better place
- Be the best friend and family member that I can be and trust my friends and family
- Be happy and healthy
I have no doubt that 2011 will be my best year yet. They each get better and better. Every year also seems to go by faster. I hope that I will be able to create new memories and relationships and value and retain them all.